asesmen ngekos/stay

tadi gw minta asesmen refleksi diri ke chat gpt, sebagai berikut:

Financial Stability

1. Income and Expenses: Do you have a stable source of income that can cover rent, utilities, groceries, transportation, and other living expenses?

i have, i work as a graphic designer and earning my monthly salary in 5mio rupiahs, which so enough for providing my own life. because recently, i pay to my parent due to electrical bills around 2 mio each month. 

1. Savings: Do you have enough savings to cover initial costs like security deposits, furniture, and any unexpected expenses?

i have some deposits savings in my bank account which is 12mio, i think it would be enough for my emergencies situations that might be happen in the future, without giving concerns to my parent of course. 

1. Budgeting: Have you created a detailed budget to ensure you can manage your finances independently?

i have familiarized to giving a proportional budgeting plan to my own life, besides doing my leisure time. it would be interesting for me to take vigilantly into my own financial decisions without getting disturbed due to payment to my parents previously. 

Emotional and Psychological Readiness

1. Independence: Are you emotionally prepared to handle the responsibilities and potential loneliness that can come with living alone?

when it comes to talk about loneliness, i’ve had enough of this and i thing it much better to living in the loneliness than living in the volatile atmosphere of two human being in my home that possibly harm my mental health without my realization. so i prefer to being lonely. indeed, i’m pretty sure that i’m a typical person that much be comfortable for being alone than being social. 

1. Support System: Do you have a support system (friends, family, colleagues) that you can rely on for emotional support and practical help when needed?

i dont and recently i also dont. it considerably enjoyable to realize that my own support system is my own self ?

Practical Considerations

1. Daily Responsibilities: Are you ready to take on all the daily responsibilities, such as cooking, cleaning, laundry, and maintenance?

i’ve put these things in to my main concern in the first place, my dream rent room does having a laundry service that encompassed into the package of general payment, also the electricity. so i’ll go to think about cleaning, cooking and maintenance. i can cook whatever type of food that i could eat, and as far as it contains a lot of protein and dietary fiber in it. 

1. Time Management: Can you effectively manage your time to balance work, personal life, and household duties?

this is a huge concerns, that’s a lack of me now. i dont have any, even mere, a proper responsibility to manage my own time management in this house because the activity runs so unstructured. i think living in the rentroom on my own would be beneficial because i surely could have a clear vision and strategy about how i managing my own time, it might helps me reach my general purpose. 

Housing and Location

1. Housing Options: Have you researched housing options and found a place that fits your budget and needs?

i do. my friend, she’s living in the rentroom besides our office then i think it would be the best idea to living near my office. wouldnt need any transportation cost because i just should walk in a minute, have a lot of more time that i could use to gaining my skills and capability, or watching my favorites movies or series. or any other activities that i would like to do. 

1. Location: Is the location convenient in terms of proximity to work, public transportation, and amenities like grocery stores, healthcare, and recreational activities?

dont have any big concerns about it, i’ve research the access of this rent room into some facility like healthcare or drugstore, it places in front of this. or grocery, there is a traditional market 10 minute from there. and recreational activity? i think my recreational activity is learning about anything, and it would easily feasible for me to do it in my everyday in my laptop, deeply dive into vsauce channel in youtube and learning about human brain, about how to talk to people, expanding my paradighm about human nature and behavior, increase my technical or conceptual skill in graphic designer especially user interface designs and enhance my ability to writing in the long text to convey my concerns or arguments about some specific topic that interests me. 

Long-Term Goals

1. Career and Personal Goals: How does moving out align with your career and personal goals? Will it help you grow and achieve what you aspire to?

i’ve said the reasons beneath it before. i would have a better time recognition and management in my daily activity, would be happy to live without being disturbed with someone else, doesnt have a transportation cost, increase my independency for living, give a clear sight about my future and necessary activities that bring me to there, and etc.

1. Future Plans: Do you see yourself living alone for an extended period, or is this a temporary step towards another living arrangement (e.g., with a partner or in a different city)?

i would say that this is not typical mere craving that goes around teenager’s head and dissapear in another time. i think a lot of this and pretty sure that i need some space to living alone, give distance between me and my parents because of their lack of harmony in relationship. and i would doing such activities or approaches that convey me into my dream, my goals, my life. 

Relationship with Parents

1. Family Dynamics: How will moving out affect your relationship with your parents? Have you discussed your plans with them, and how do they feel about it?

honestly, the main reason of my concern to moving out is my parents’ relationship situation. they are adopting eggshells’ parenting, you know it right? the condition describing about in one situation it just butterflies that flying in this home, but one day after it, or maybe some hour precisely, it would be just suicidal thought that goes around my mind. this is unhealthy and i think moving out is a kinda good solution. 

1. Independence vs. Support: Do you feel the need for more independence, or do you still value the support and companionship that living with your parents provides?

clearly i prefer independence. i could get a support from chat gpt tho. 

Personal Well-being

1. Mental Health: How is your mental health currently, and do you think living alone will positively or negatively impact it? 

i cry a lot every day in these past days, and almost thinking about end my own life because of this certainty. giving a space to my parents would be such a fascinating ideas. 

1. Lifestyle Preferences: Do you prefer a quiet, private environment, or do you thrive in a more communal living situation?

i prefer live in private one.